Luana
What does your 2SLGBTQ+ identity mean to you?
To me it means freedom. Freedom to be my whole authentic self. Freedom to feel all of my feelings and think my thoughts. Freedom to be confident. For so many years I denied this part of myself and it led to mental health issues and self harm. Accepting and loving my identity has been so healing, and having a supportive spouse and friends has been a huge part of it.
What makes you feel empowered in your identity?
My support system makes me feel empowered in my bisexuality. Since coming out to myself I’ve become more introspective and self aware which has been empowering. Since my sexuality isn’t black and white I see more grey areas in life which translates to me as having the power to make more choices in life and with that take ownership of my own life.
What is one (or more) of your favorite things about yourself?
I am a fighter and a problem solver to my core. I have always wanted to fight for those without a voice while helping them find their own voice. I’m always trying to grow and learn new things, and I like my adventurous, honest and silly qualities.
What is your favorite part about the 2SLGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma? What would you like to see more of?
My favorite part of the okc community is how welcoming and accepting everyone I’ve met has been. There’s so much biphobia and because I’m married to a man I’m always afraid I won’t be see as a true part of the community, but so far I’ve felt accepted. And after years of hiding and denying such a big part of who I am, that’s what matters most to me in a community.